Premature ejaculation is a problem that can really darken a man's sex life; it can plague his relationships with women and can cause him to have low self esteem problems. When a man knows that a potential sexual encounter can end with his embarrassment he will choose not to participate in that event, and thus the dark spiral begins.
I have talked to a lot of men who have gone through this experience, and they all talked about the negative effects it had on their lives. They purposely would not get involved in a relationship even though they wanted to, and even if they did, the relationship would eventually fail due to their excuse and inability to have sex. In fact, some have spoken of going YEARS without sexual contact due to their fear of being embarrassed. Men choosing not to have families and be happy because of their fear of prematurely ejaculating, so it's obvious just how much of an effect this condition can have on your life.
Another problem is that the longer you put off finding a solution to premature ejaculation, the worse the problem gets because the inner issues become deeper and your sense of self becomes more wounded that eventually you need deeper methods to fix your problems. At the start quick fix techniques such as squeezing and thicker condoms will do the trick, but the longer you wait, the harder it gets to fix.
This is the beauty of the internet in the modern world, a man doesn't need to go to a doctor straight away, and he can log on and browse the internet. Premature ejaculation is widely covered on the internet, and within minutes of logging on a man can find just what he needs to do right now to solve his problem
So I jumped online to see just what is out there and here's what I discovered:
1. The pills DON'T WORK, they are designed to make money and not designed to actually fix your problems, most, if not all men that took them agreed to this point.
2. There are QUICK FIX TECHNIQUES, but they aren't usually long term, they help you in the moment but leave the deeper insecurity belief untouched. But that being said, short term fixes can in fact help facilitate inner change.
3. There are lots of methods that address the deeper problems, such as NLP, and they are valuable and I highly recommend checking them out.
Read complete article by maxey Thomas at http://www.ayurveda-increaselibido.com/articles/PrematureEjaculation_PE.html
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Guy Sex-Anatomy Facts
Always good to clear the air of any misconceptions with some solid facts about the penis:
• Big guys don’t necessarily have big penises. A 6’5” basketball player could have a tiny gherkin-sized penis while a 5’3” shrimpy guy could be extremely well-endowed.
• Likewise, you know what they say about a guy with big feet? Well it doesn’t mean squat. Big hands and feet have nothing to do with penis-size.
• Hairiness (or lack thereof) has nothing to do with virility. Guys who are hairy or who are bald have a predisposition to be that way – it has nothing to do with testosterone or libido.
• Not all guys masturbate regularly. At least 5% pass on this daily activity.
• A veiny penis is totally normal; it is not a sign of infection, infertility, or impotence.
• Mountain Dew will not decrease sperm count. People used to think that yellow dye 5m and caffeine were responsible for a drop in sperm, but both theories have been debunked.
• Not all guys are circumcised and it’s becoming more popular to leave boys fully intact. In fact, 85% of men in the world are uncircumcised. In the US, every year the number of circumcisions drops, and is now only slightly more than 50%.
• The average erect penis is about 5” long. Any hard on bigger than that is considered big.
• Erectile dysfunction is not a symptom of aging. Older people are more likely to get Erectile dysfunction because of other illnesses that they’ve acquired over time and because of medications that they may be taking. This is why young men can also experience ED and problems with impotence.
• Guys can fake an orgasm too. Unless a woman knows that a guy generally ejaculates bucket-loads, it’s possible for a guy to fake climax – almost as easy as it is for his partner.
Read complete article at http://www.ayurveda-increaselibido.com/2009/07/guy-sex-anatomy-facts.html
• Big guys don’t necessarily have big penises. A 6’5” basketball player could have a tiny gherkin-sized penis while a 5’3” shrimpy guy could be extremely well-endowed.
• Likewise, you know what they say about a guy with big feet? Well it doesn’t mean squat. Big hands and feet have nothing to do with penis-size.
• Hairiness (or lack thereof) has nothing to do with virility. Guys who are hairy or who are bald have a predisposition to be that way – it has nothing to do with testosterone or libido.
• Not all guys masturbate regularly. At least 5% pass on this daily activity.
• A veiny penis is totally normal; it is not a sign of infection, infertility, or impotence.
• Mountain Dew will not decrease sperm count. People used to think that yellow dye 5m and caffeine were responsible for a drop in sperm, but both theories have been debunked.
• Not all guys are circumcised and it’s becoming more popular to leave boys fully intact. In fact, 85% of men in the world are uncircumcised. In the US, every year the number of circumcisions drops, and is now only slightly more than 50%.
• The average erect penis is about 5” long. Any hard on bigger than that is considered big.
• Erectile dysfunction is not a symptom of aging. Older people are more likely to get Erectile dysfunction because of other illnesses that they’ve acquired over time and because of medications that they may be taking. This is why young men can also experience ED and problems with impotence.
• Guys can fake an orgasm too. Unless a woman knows that a guy generally ejaculates bucket-loads, it’s possible for a guy to fake climax – almost as easy as it is for his partner.
Read complete article at http://www.ayurveda-increaselibido.com/2009/07/guy-sex-anatomy-facts.html
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